Great point Bill. Perspective is a huge element in how we view life. I agree that “have to” suggests we don’t have a choice, we don’t have control – both of which limit our ability to happen to life instead of happening to it. Thanks for pointing this out.
]]>When I hear the phrase “have to”… as in “I have to go to work today” I translate it to mean “don’t want to.”
“Need to”… that’s an entirely different matter. I do what I need to as well as what I want.
Kind Regards.
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